We’ve all known someone who tries to make us feel inferior, whether it’s with subtle comments, arrogant attitudes, or criticism disguised as “good intentions.” These people often project their own insecurities and need to feel superior in order to validate themselves.
But the truth is, no one has the power to make you feel less than if you don’t give it to them. Learning to handle this type of situation not only strengthens your self-esteem, but also teaches you to set limits without losing your calm or dignity.
10 Tips for Handling People Who Think They’re Better Than You
1. Recognize that the problem is not you
People who need to humiliate or belittle others do so from their own lack. Their arrogance is a mask that hides insecurity. Don’t take it personally.
2. Avoid getting into their game
Don’t get into arguments or try to prove to them that you’re worth more. When you respond with serenity and confidence, you take away the power they seek to have over you.
3. Boost your self-esteem every day
Make a list of your achievements, virtues, and learnings. Remembering what you are worth gives you strength in the face of those who try to diminish you.
4. Use silence as a response
Sometimes, the best way to respond is not to respond. Intelligent silence displaces the arrogant and demonstrates self-control.
5. Surround yourself with people who value you
Seek healthy relationships with those who drive you, not those who wear you down. The right company can completely change your outlook and energy.
6. Set clear boundaries
If someone speaks to you with contempt, say it calmly but firmly:
“I don’t like the way you’re talking to me.”
Learning to say it without guilt is a form of self-respect.
7. Don’t compare yourself to anyone else
Each person has their own path, and comparing yourself only robs you of peace. Your value does not depend on being “better” or “worse,” but on being authentic.
8. Work on your personal growth
Study, learn, improve your life little by little. Not to prove anything to anyone, but to be proud of your own progress.
9. Learn how to spot microaggressions
Sometimes attacks come disguised as jokes or advice. If someone says something to you that makes you feel small, don’t ignore it. Acknowledge it and decide if the relationship is worth continuing.
10. Choose peace over revenge
Responding with kindness and distance is the greatest demonstration of strength. The arrogant feed on conflict; Peace disarms him.
