A short while ago, a young girl named Alba faced significant challenges at the outset of her life. Born with Down Syndrome, she was abandoned by her birth mother. Despite being rejected by twenty potential adoptive families, her future appeared uncertain until Luca Trapanese entered her life, altering their destinies forever.


Luca, having recently ended a serious relationship, felt a void that he believed only parenthood could fill. Despite the societal hurdles faced as a single, gay man in Italy, where surrogacy is prohibited and same-sex couples cannot jointly adopt, Luca remained resolute in his desire to become a father. He was willing to embrace the opportunity to adopt a child with special needs like Alba.

Their encounter felt like fate. At the time Luca discovered Alba, numerous families had turned her away due to her condition. In July 2017, Luca made the life-changing decision to adopt her, bringing them together as a family. Since then, Luca and Alba have formed an unbreakable bond.


Luca had always envisioned fatherhood and wholeheartedly embraced every aspect of it with Alba. He often shares snippets of their joyful moments on social media, proudly identifying himself as a single father deeply devoted to his daughter.


Now seven years old, Alba’s life with Luca is brimming with love and happiness. Luca regards fatherhood as his most significant role, prioritizing Alba’s well-being above all else.

Their days are filled with shared activities, such as dancing and singing, with Luca celebrating each of Alba’s milestones with immense pride. He is acutely aware of the significance of these achievements for children with Down Syndrome and is committed to supporting Alba through every challenge.




Luca is resolute in his mission to confront societal views and champion Alba’s rights as an individual, transcending her disability. He hopes for Alba to be acknowledged for her distinct talents and abilities, firmly believing that every child, particularly those with disabilities, possesses remarkable attributes.


In his quest to transform societal perceptions, Luca penned a book entitled “We Will Amaze You With Special Flaws,” which seeks to change the narrative surrounding disabilities, presenting them as strengths instead of limitations.

To potential adoptive parents, Luca extends words of motivation, underscoring the immense rewards that come with adoption and the significance of fully embracing the journey of parenthood.

Currently, Alba thrives in a nurturing environment brimming with love and opportunities, engaging in a variety of activities and fully embracing life. Although she was born with Down Syndrome, Alba’s condition does not limit her; instead, it amplifies her individuality and strength.
